I don't talk about this much but the fact is I am a certified stylecoach and also a certified image consultant under Sheila Wong, Malaysia. So here goes. 

I used to think that I will lead with my mindset stuff because really this is what I truly truly believe in. I believe that you create your reality and it's from the inside out. I don't just believe it. It's the story of my life.

Recently, I had my friend tell me that I should not do facebook live with a sleeveless t-shirt. You know what? I told her that I love being in my sleeveless t-shirt and I have people telling me they watched my video over and over again. So I am comfortable with my sleeveless t-shirt because I love sleeveless t-shirt and it's hot in Malaysia. I work from home and I can't possibly be dressing up in a suit at home!!!

However, that being said, if I were to meet with my corporate clients in an office, I will dress the part. 

What a lot of people do with dressing and image is that they think they have to look a certain way and that people therefore need to look a certain way. A lot of it is a story you tell yourself or you bought into the story of what people tell you. 

So looking a certain way isn't the answer. You first need to be YOU. I repeat. You need to be YOU. There is nothing more attractive for you to be you and to own you. Now, if you think you need to dress a certain way and that you need to listen to every critical voice out there, then you will be directionless because if you ask 10 people, I guarantee you, you will find different answers.

Did you hear what I just say? Or read LOL.

If you ask 10 people, you will get 10 different answers!!!!

So what do you do. You get to be YOU. Embrace YOU. BE YOU!!! In the way you dress. From the inside out and outside in....

There. That's image and branding for you. Basic 101. 

And for those of you confuse as to why I am even writing about this topic is because I am getting a lot of request to do image and branding. Thus, I will start to do this. Does this jive with me and my message. Absolutely!! 

Change occurs at 2 levels. In fact more but that's a subject of a different discussion. It can happen when you affect change to the way you look thus making you feel good on the inside. However, if you change on the inside, you will change the way you look on the outside. The outside in is not sustainable, but the inside out is super sustainable. 

People of the corporate world is fixated with the outside in. I want to insist on a different way - the inside out. All success comes from the inside out and I insist that there is no better way.

Oops, back to image and branding. Is it important? Absolutely coz like it or not, people will look at you and judge you by how you look and present yourself. So you are your brand. You SHOUT YOUR BRAND!! Whether you realise it or not, you are SHOTING YOU!!

So it's best to realise it and make sure you take advantage of SHOUTING YOU. And that you don't shout the wrong message. We are sending messages everyday to people around us.

Are you sending the right message?

Which is why in my new webinar/masterclass. I am incorporating a special - to include professional image and branding. If you would like to find out this exciting webinar/masterclass, go click on the link to register and watch.
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I have people tell me they can't attend the class because they are so busy or they are not in my location.

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CIAO!! 

Your limiting beliefs runs your life whether you like it or not. This is what happened – a technique that I was taught and am sharing this with you.

The following is my beliefs about money and how I had my breakthrough…..

As I close my eyes to visualise I immediately saw a dark cloud and instantly I saw an image of myself in my teens waiting in the balcony for the “rotiman” or the bread man to come. Back in those days, there were many rotiman who would come in their bicycles or motorbike selling roti (bread).

Every day I would wait with only 15 cents to spare at 4pm. In my teenage days, I was constantly hungry… And when the rotiman came I would go down and buy the 15 cents coconut bread. Why coconut bread? Because it was filling and fit into my 15 cents budget.

I have never eaten coconut bread since my teenage days!!

Reason was my father was never making enough money and I lived most of the time in hunger. And that vision that I saw terrifies me. I felt an immediate pit in my stomach. Ever get that feeling? That’s the feeling of fear. And that’s the belief that is running you!

And it resonated, I spent most of my corporate life working and striving very hard because I was in fear. It propelled me to work really hard as that feeling of poverty gripped my stomach. I would NEVER want to go back to that place. EVER!!

The reason why I am telling you this story is because you too have limiting beliefs that runs you. IT RULES YOUR LIFE!! Make no mistake about it. And you function unconsciously because you don’t even know it’s there.

And if you take a look at your current state right now, it’s those beliefs that are running at the core that is the BOSS. You are not the boss. You think your thoughts are running your life? Think again. It’s your belief. That is why it is so hard to break the pattern and the habit of your life and you keep seeing the same old stuff happening again and again.

Look, I did this stuff 7 years ago and had some limiting beliefs uncovered and was set free and my relationship with my spouse catapulted as a result of that episode. Then in 2015, I had the privileged of being set free from a few more limiting beliefs which has catapulted me once again to cause me to close the biggest sale in the history of my company and got my dream job.

What are your limiting beliefs?

Believe me when you set yourself free from your beliefs it’s almost like chains fell off you and more and more chains will fall off when you uncover more and more. In any individual, there are often layers and layers of beliefs.

Recently I had somebody told me he does not want to proceed with coaching because his sales dip by 80% and so he needs to start focusing on his sales. Actually the opposite is true, he needs it even more as his business needed a quantum leap.

And the only way to have a quantum leap is to set yourself free from your beliefs. That’s when you are not blocked. That’s when you will stop the self -sabotage and that’s when the money flows.

Do you want money to flow?

The first thing you need to do is to unclog the pipe. Your internal pipe. Can you do it all by yourself and figure out what your beliefs are? Highly unlikely. I don’t know of anyone who can do so for themselves. Even coaches need other coaches to coach them out of their limiting beliefs. It’s hard to see clearly when you are involved. You are often too muddled to know the difference.

Do you want to Double your income by transcending your fears &beliefs. Want to know more and how that can help you to double, triple your income?

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