Are you at a point in your life where you feel like you are afraid to make the next move because you feel you are not ready? And you end up with lots of excuses like you don't want to get that dream job or move up because you feel obliged to stay back in your hometown. That looks like a very valid excuse until you examine further what the real reason is for that excuse.
You are afraid to get help such as coaching because you are actually afraid of the person you will become when you actually take the step.
Whenever you are in a place of indecision, it's taunted by fears. Fears of the unknown. Fears that does not sound like fears but are actually excuses that you will make up to give yourself reasons not to decide.
So what are your fears? Are you perhaps afraid that when you make that move, that your business will not take off? Is that why you still cling on to a corporate job and continue to be miserable. Not everyone wants to start a business so I am talking to those who has such a desire. Know that they want to but are holding back.
So my point is whenever you are at the crossroads of indecision. It's held back by fears. And the only way to move forward and get the success and freedom you crave is to make a decision. A non-decision is also a decision. It just means that you don't want to do anything to change your life. You are still stuck in the current reality and mud. A mud that strangely most people love to cling to.
People actually love their mud because it is familiar. And although they are aware that things are not working and they want a change (like some faint distance echo that they barely recognise) but staying put feels good. It is familiar. Even though it hurts.
I never really understood this concept. I always thought that if you don't like your situation - change it coz you have the power to. Now being in coaching and speaking to so many people, I am beginning to realise that people are at the very core afraid of change. Any kind of change, even if it's the change for the better.
Ask yourself. Do you want to change? Or are you too afraid to step up because you are afraid. Even though you know that stepping up is actually good for you but still you are afraid and you give yourself many different excuses to camouflage the fears. Excuses are just camouflage. They are actually fears in disguise.
I can help you to step up. To create a new life. To change and become the person you want to be. To transform. Are you afraid to make that move? If you somehow actually want to but are still in indecision, I can help.
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You owe it to yourself to make a decision to step up. How many more years do you want to wait? How many lives do you want to live before making a decision. Investing in yourself is the greatest gift you can gift to yourself.
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