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Feeling Lousy?

3/1/2017

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Feeling lousy is a choice.
Yes. Everything in life is a choice and that includes feeling lousy. Do you feel at times like you are like banging your head against the wall, where things are not working out and you get all stressed out and anxious and you start to feel really lousy, bad, depressed?
You can change all that - in fact instantly!
You may be saying well - easy for you to say coz everything is going well for you. But no - everything is NOT ALWAYS going ok. It's not possible if you are living on this earth and you are human.
But the fact is you can make a choice in the matter. YOUR FEELINGS!
Why so? Because if you really ask yourself and ask your logical mind about this. What if you are feeling bad? Does that change anything? Say you wake up and you start to think how bad things really are and you kind of like feel down in the dumps. Would that really help? Like would things become better because you are feeling down in the dumps?
NO
You don't feel good and things are not BETTER. In fact, things gets worst. People, situation and circumstances. For example, you may start to scream at your children or your spouse and snap at your colleagues. You get the picture.
So when things aren't going well and you are tempted to feel lousy and bask in the feelings of lousiness (is there such a word? LOL) Then I would suggest you ask yourself this. My behaving and feeling lousy - does that change my environment and circumstance for the better?
And if it does'nt help anything at all, you have a choice. A choice to feel grateful for all the wonderful things that are happening in your life. A choice to make the best of the present situation. And that is to switch your bad feelings to good positive feelings which btw - will change everything. That's when opportunities comes to you and people are attracted to you.
Logical Reason: Because you are pleasant to be with and generally people are attracted to people who are pleasant and nice. And also because you are not so muddled up with your feeling of despair that you see opportunities. Like actually notice and see opportunities! You naturally can't if you are stressed out and anxious.
That's the tip for today.
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    30 years in corporate

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Meliza is a Certified Style Coach (Image Consultant + Life Coach). She has 30 years of corporate experience ranging from project management to presales, sales and most recently strategically working with partners to market software.in the Asean region. Her mission is to transform lives by helping professionals and entrepreneurs alike to elevate their lives through increase in sales & business and create their new reality. She focuses on  mindset work and uses revolutionary tools & techniques to help her clients achieve unprecedented success in business, work and life. 
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